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Q: All of my friends seem like they are having a blast at college, but I feel lonely! Is this normal?

A: It’s okay to feel homesick! Whether you’re a twenty-minute drive away or across the country, everyone gets a little homesick from time to time. It’s N O R M A L! You may think you’re alone, but ask any of your friends, and they will surely be able to relate.

Of course, if your homesickness is getting in the way of your academics or social life, you should reach out. Your RA is a great resource -- they are trained in helping students get through this big adjustment! 

Recently, a Cornell freshman posted a YouTube video about freshmen loneliness that went viral! Click the link to see it! 

Our summer intern Laura Card is a sophomore at Colgate University, where she plans to major in Biology and Women's Studies. 

Our summer intern Laura Card is a sophomore at Colgate University, where she plans to major in Biology and Women's Studies. 

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Q: I'm a junior and I'm starting to put my college list together. I'm not really sure what I want to study -- or what size school I want.

A: It’s okay not to know! If you are unsure of what path you want to follow, do not stress out. Many students enter their freshman year without knowing their intended major. Most liberal arts colleges do not require you to declare a major until your sophomore year, so you have time to explore different areas of study. You aren’t alone!

Make a pros and cons list! It's not always easy to differentiate one school from the next. Make a pros and cons list for each school, taking into consideration programs, courses, sports, clubs, social life, tuition, location, etc.

Make the best choice for yourself! Family and friends often have the tendency to pressure you towards one school. Remember that it is YOU who will be attending the school, not them. While their opinions can be helpful, it is your future and therefore your decision. Choose the schools that are best for you.

Our summer intern Laura Card is a sophomore at Colgate University, where she plans to major in Biology and Women's Studies. 

Our summer intern Laura Card is a sophomore at Colgate University, where she plans to major in Biology and Women's Studies. 

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Q: I'm in the thick of application craziness! Tips?

A: Don’t sell yourself short! Apply to schools even if you think that they’re a reach. The worst that can happen is they say no. Who knows, you may surprise yourself!

Do your research! Explore university web pages and learn more about the schools you are interested in. Look up offered programs, scholarships, courses, sports, clubs, nightlife, etc. Email your admissions representative and try to set up a lunch or online conversation with an alum or current student in your area!

Stand out! Your essay is your chance to let your personality shine. Avoid the cookie-cutter essays and really make the effort to stand out from other applicants. Your resume, too, is a great way to show the university how you choose to spend your time.

It’s okay to not know! If you are unsure of what path you want to follow do not stress out. Many students enter their freshman year without knowing their intended major. Most schools do not require you to declare a major until your sophomore year, so you have time to explore different areas of study. You aren’t alone!

Our summer intern Laura Card is a sophomore at Colgate University, where she plans to major in Biology and Women's Studies. 

Our summer intern Laura Card is a sophomore at Colgate University, where she plans to major in Biology and Women's Studies. 

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Nithya Pathalam is a junior at Georgetown University and a former student of College Matters. In this Student to Student segment, Nithya talks about her decision to transfer. 

Nithya Pathalam is a junior at Georgetown University and a former student of College Matters. In this Student to Student segment, Nithya talks about her decision to transfer. 

When I tell people that the reason I transferred universities was because I “loved my old school too much” I often receive very puzzled looks. I decided during my sophomore year at Northeastern University to apply to transfer. Choosing to put myself out there and apply to other schools was hard, but when acceptances rolled out, and I was faced with the option of leaving my university, I had no idea what to do. In the end, I did decide to transfer to Georgetown University in Washington D.C., and I am so glad that I did.

When I say that I “loved my old school too much,” I definitely mean it. My experiences were enriching, I met some phenomenal people, and I was able to establish myself with a positive reputation. I did well in my classes, had a position as the leader of a research team, was connected with my professors, and had a part-time job. To any college student, it may seem like I had it all- but internally, that was not the case. Growing up in central Massachusetts, Boston was the big city that I knew, and it had my heart and soul. I loved being surrounded by the innovative culture and active student life. However, after interning in Washington D.C. the summer after my freshman year, I had discovered that there was so much more to the world than just the little corner that I happened to know. I was almost too comfortable with where I stood and wanted to challenge myself in a new way and continue to explore the world.

Being a transfer student is never easy, and I knew that transitioning to a new place during my junior year of college would be exhausting. I would need to make new friends, establish a new schedule, get acclimated to a new city, join new clubs, and meet completely new professors -- but somehow everything worked out in my favor. I am lucky enough to say that I am now happily surrounded by an amazing group of students and professors, a new academic environment, and a vibrant new city and I will never look back on my decision to transfer as a negative one.

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Our summer intern Laura Card is a rising sophomore at Colgate University, where she plans to major in Biology and Women's Studies. 

Our summer intern Laura Card is a rising sophomore at Colgate University, where she plans to major in Biology and Women's Studies. 

Q: First year orientation was a blast. Now that classes have started, I'm feeling a bit overwhelmed. 

A: Attend an event on campus! Throughout the week, there are tons of fun events and guest speakers. (Some professors even offer extra credit for attending specific events!) Most of these events are free -- and many include food! So take a break from your work. You'll come back to it re-energized.  

Go to office hours! Especially in larger class sections, it can be hard to develop a relationship with your professor, so try to attend their office hours when you can. Office hours are a perfect time to clarify any confusion you may have with course material, and it will also put a face to your name. Your professor will see that you are making an effort in their class which will often help your grade come the end of the semester!

Stay on top of your work! It’s easy to get overwhelmed with assignments and exams, especially at the end of the semester. Make sure you stay ahead of your homework and studying, so it doesn’t all pile up. Try setting a goal-time each night to have your work done by and reward yourself after with a movie or a night out with friends, so you are motivated to get it finished!

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Our summer intern Laura Card is a rising sophomore at Colgate University, where she plans to major in Biology and Women's Studies. 

Our summer intern Laura Card is a rising sophomore at Colgate University, where she plans to major in Biology and Women's Studies. 

Q: I'm about to start my first year in college. What advice would you give me before I pack the car?

A: Balance your time! The best skill to have during college is, without a doubt, time management. Find a balance between academics and your social life, and don’t forget about sleep! Pulling all-nighters never feels good in the morning--make sure you’re fully rested to take on your next day. 

Plan ahead! I found the best way to prioritize my time was to outline my weekly schedule. Taking five minutes each Sunday night to write down any assignments, exams, or events I had throughout the week helped me stay organized, efficient, and prepared!

Take a class outside of your major! Branch out during course registration and try something outside of your path of interest. Following the pre-med track, my schedule was pretty science-heavy, so I decided to take Introduction to Women’s Studies and ending up loving it so much that I’m looking to double major in Biology and Women’s Studies. University offers lots of cool and interesting courses--try one out, you just might love it!

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